FINAL COURSE CAPSTONE

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Impressions

What we see is often what we feel inside. Many of us in our group had similar opinions when trying to make opinions about the photograph we evaluated. Most of us used specific elements that we saw to make judgments. Most were able to make connections from what we have experienced in our lives to "guesstamate" the specifics of the photograph. I agreed with many of my group mates about the photograph. Some were nervous to make judgments about the female, but everyone else was able to complete the task without difficulty!
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NOW, a little about First Impressions and Instincts.....






ARE the middle squares all red, all orange, mixed colors??  Hmmm, it's our perception that muddies the water!

The Koffka Ring Illusion shows us that what we see can be an illusion...



Saturday, July 18, 2015

3 Strategies

This week we are tasked to think about the cultural diversity we see in our colleagues at school, in our neighborhood, in our workplace, and also, possibly, within our family.  We are to consider all the aspects that make up culture, including race, religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation, varying abilities, and so on.

The question we are to ask is;
Do you find yourself communicating differently with people from different groups and cultures?

To answer this honestly, I would say yes, I do communicate differently with different groups. I can eliminate political affiliations and sexual orientation as those are not groups that I have awareness of, therefore I don’t respond to those groups differently.

When having conversations with those of religions different than my own, I try to remember the cultural norms of that group. I try to be respectful of their cultural beliefs surrounding their religion, and mirror the family’s method of communication.

Three strategies you could use to help you communicate more effectively with the people or groups you have identified:

1.    Don’t assume that helping children is makes them too dependent! Modeling is a strong strategy!   (Gonzalez-Mena, 2010). 
2.    Consider asking more questions than you normally would, in order to clarify meaning and messages (Beebe, Beebe,& Redmond, 2011). 
3.    We must remember that self-reflection and consideration of the contextual nature of the communication event is mandatory (Vuckovic, 2008).


Reference
 Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.

Gonzalez-Mena, J. (2010). 50 strategies for communicating and working with diverse families. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education, Inc.


Vuckovic, A. (2008). Inter-cultural communication: A foundation of communicative action. Multicultural Education and Technology Journal, 2(1), 47–59.

Saturday, July 11, 2015

Watching The New Girl 2 Times!

This week we are tasked to watch a show without sound to describe what we think is happening. I chose a show I used to watch (Don't watch television too much lately, only Youtube). I chose New Girl. It is a comedy based on the roommates. Think about a mixture between, Three's Company mixed in with a little of The Office, with some hints of I Love Lucy antics.  

What do you think the characters' relationships are based on the ways in which they are communicating?
I haven't seen this in well over a year, so there are some new characters. It appears that there is a new friend joining the group. And I couldn't tell what is happening in the second part of the story. I was very confused.
What are they feeling and expressing based on the nonverbal behavior you are observing?
The group is all over the place. It doesn't appear to be funny. Part of it seems silly, yet I have no idea what is happening. 




Then I watched the show with the sound turned on.

What assumptions did you make about the characters and plot based on the ways in which you interpreted the communication you observed?
Ok, so I get it now. The "new friend" is actually the sister of the main character. The second storyline involves one person trying to get a job after failing the police academy exam. This entire storyline looked serious and dramatic, but when hearing the dialogue I can tell it is all silly with tons of jokes and sarcastic remarks.Would your assumptions have been more correct if you had been watching a show you know well?
This is a show I used to know well, so NO it doesn't help. I couldn't tell what the show was presenting at all.

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Communication

Hello to my new classmates!
This week we are asked to present someone who has a communication style that we appreciate. I don't watch a lot of television so my main source of news and entertainment is the internet.
One place I get my information is a Youtube channel called TheLipTV.  They parent documentary reviews and news stories.  One of the shows on that show is called Crime Time.   Allison Hope Wiener is the shows main presenter and her presentation method is one that I appreciate. She often speaks of criminal cases and she never uses judgment in her narrative.  She is an attorney so she also knows what she is speaking about and uses case law, previous cases, and evidence to present her point of view. She has a keen sense of humor and brings on many guests who are leaders in the field.

Monday, June 22, 2015

Goals, Hopes, and Thank You!



 
One hope that I have when thinking about working with children and families who come from diverse backgrounds is to maintain momentum and the commitment to learning and advocating for children of diverse backgrounds.

                                              

One goal you would like to set for the early childhood field related to issues of diversity, equity, and social justice (any format and any length)

I have a million professional goals running around in my head. Sometimes I want to continue my education, sometimes I want to work with younger students, sometimes I want to work in the advocacy arena of early childhood. With each new article and study we review my goals change a bit. That is the beauty of continuing our education, we learn of more opportunity available to us!

I would like to thank each of you for working with me throughout this course. I have enjoyed learning about you and look forward to seeing you in our last classes together. We are very close!

Have a great summer and keep on, keepin’ on!!

Saturday, June 20, 2015

Eritrea


Eritrea

Eritrea's population comprises nine ethnic groups, most of which speak Semitic or Cushitic languages. The Tigrinya and Tigre make up four-fifths of the population and speak different, but related and somewhat mutually intelligible, Semitic languages. In general, most of the Christians live in the highlands, while Muslims and adherents of traditional beliefs live in lowland regions. Tigrinya and Arabic are the most frequently used languages for commercial and official transactions. In urban areas, English is widely spoken and is the language used for secondary and university education.


 

In order to be culturally responsive I will do more research on the country. I will read the child’s registration documents to find out about the work of the family. This may lead me to know about their economic position. I will ask the registrar about the parents’ level of English in order to plan for our first meeting.

During our first meeting, I will share that I am thrilled to have a student from Eritrea in my class. (Letting them know I would love to know more about their home country). I will ask questions at our meeting in order to find out about their culture in order to plan appropriately.

*By doing this, I will learn about the family. Knowing more about the family will allow me to be respectful of the child’s culture and act in a way that supports the values of the family. Honoring the child’s culture will make his/her transition into American education system less cumbersome. Children are interested in new places and people and being able to share a small bit about the child could make it easier to develop new friendships.
Eritrea's nine nationalities
Tigrinya woman - Eritrea Rashaida woman - Eritrea
Tigrinya woman Rashaida woman
Afar woman - Eritrea Tigre woman - Eritrea
Afar woman Tigre woman
Kunama woman - Eritrea Saho woman - Eritrea
Kunama woman Saho woman
Nara woman - Eritrea Hedareb woman - Eritrea
Nara woman Hedareb woman
Bilen woman - Eritrea One heart - one people
Bilen woman One heart

Saturday, June 13, 2015

Sometimes I'm To Blame..


The memories I have of incidents when I witnessed someone else as the target of bias, prejudice, and/or oppression occur almost weekly. As a teacher in a diverse school filled with an equally diverse staff affords me the chances to witness relationships, encounters, and exchanges between those two groups. Most instances are subtle, even non- recognizable to others, but as we are studying micro-aggressions, I am hyper focused on what I witness.
Dr. Sue Laureate, 2010

 

The first of these instances places me as the unintentional aggressor. I teach kindergarten, and we allow, and encourage parents to come up and have lunch with their children. The parents can assist other children that may need it, and it helps to build community in our class. One child had a rough beginning. He arrived speaking no English, and having never been in a learning setting away from his mom. He tried to run away, and we had to “bar the door” to keep him from running out. Very quickly, he realized school was safe and fun and began to tell his mom not to wait outside our door. Mom would arrive at lunch, and hand feed him. It was as if he was a toddler and couldn’t do it himself. In the beginning, I would tell her “No, he can do it on his own.” Because of mom’s limited English, she didn’t understand my words, but she did feel my condemnation. After returning after the Winter Break, I no longer said anything. The child was making such incredible progress that I wanted her to focus on that.

          When beginning this class, I recognized my micro-aggressions towards this family and have changed my approach. I realize that meals, and the way they are handled are part of this family’s culture and I have no right to impede on their methods. This child has pushed back in small steps and he no longer lets her feed him, and their methods naturally move away from this. What I overlooked is the bonding that occurs during these lunches. I overlooked her motives for seeing her child each day. That was my error.

 

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In order to turn this incident into an opportunity for greater equity, I simply checked my ego. It was my ego that said, “Kindergarteners can’t be helped to eat their lunch.” “They are too big for help.” When we check our own biases and let go of the implied power we hold, it puts parents and teachers on a more level playing field. Teachers don’t need to play a power card in order to be effective.  



At this time of year, I am right here with this....Happy "Almost Summer Teachers!"