FINAL COURSE CAPSTONE

Saturday, July 25, 2015

Impressions

What we see is often what we feel inside. Many of us in our group had similar opinions when trying to make opinions about the photograph we evaluated. Most of us used specific elements that we saw to make judgments. Most were able to make connections from what we have experienced in our lives to "guesstamate" the specifics of the photograph. I agreed with many of my group mates about the photograph. Some were nervous to make judgments about the female, but everyone else was able to complete the task without difficulty!
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NOW, a little about First Impressions and Instincts.....






ARE the middle squares all red, all orange, mixed colors??  Hmmm, it's our perception that muddies the water!

The Koffka Ring Illusion shows us that what we see can be an illusion...



Saturday, July 18, 2015

3 Strategies

This week we are tasked to think about the cultural diversity we see in our colleagues at school, in our neighborhood, in our workplace, and also, possibly, within our family.  We are to consider all the aspects that make up culture, including race, religion, political affiliation, sexual orientation, varying abilities, and so on.

The question we are to ask is;
Do you find yourself communicating differently with people from different groups and cultures?

To answer this honestly, I would say yes, I do communicate differently with different groups. I can eliminate political affiliations and sexual orientation as those are not groups that I have awareness of, therefore I don’t respond to those groups differently.

When having conversations with those of religions different than my own, I try to remember the cultural norms of that group. I try to be respectful of their cultural beliefs surrounding their religion, and mirror the family’s method of communication.

Three strategies you could use to help you communicate more effectively with the people or groups you have identified:

1.    Don’t assume that helping children is makes them too dependent! Modeling is a strong strategy!   (Gonzalez-Mena, 2010). 
2.    Consider asking more questions than you normally would, in order to clarify meaning and messages (Beebe, Beebe,& Redmond, 2011). 
3.    We must remember that self-reflection and consideration of the contextual nature of the communication event is mandatory (Vuckovic, 2008).


Reference
 Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S. J., & Redmond, M. V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to others (6th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.

Gonzalez-Mena, J. (2010). 50 strategies for communicating and working with diverse families. Upper Saddle River, NJ: Pearson Education, Inc.


Vuckovic, A. (2008). Inter-cultural communication: A foundation of communicative action. Multicultural Education and Technology Journal, 2(1), 47–59.

Saturday, July 11, 2015

Watching The New Girl 2 Times!

This week we are tasked to watch a show without sound to describe what we think is happening. I chose a show I used to watch (Don't watch television too much lately, only Youtube). I chose New Girl. It is a comedy based on the roommates. Think about a mixture between, Three's Company mixed in with a little of The Office, with some hints of I Love Lucy antics.  

What do you think the characters' relationships are based on the ways in which they are communicating?
I haven't seen this in well over a year, so there are some new characters. It appears that there is a new friend joining the group. And I couldn't tell what is happening in the second part of the story. I was very confused.
What are they feeling and expressing based on the nonverbal behavior you are observing?
The group is all over the place. It doesn't appear to be funny. Part of it seems silly, yet I have no idea what is happening. 




Then I watched the show with the sound turned on.

What assumptions did you make about the characters and plot based on the ways in which you interpreted the communication you observed?
Ok, so I get it now. The "new friend" is actually the sister of the main character. The second storyline involves one person trying to get a job after failing the police academy exam. This entire storyline looked serious and dramatic, but when hearing the dialogue I can tell it is all silly with tons of jokes and sarcastic remarks.Would your assumptions have been more correct if you had been watching a show you know well?
This is a show I used to know well, so NO it doesn't help. I couldn't tell what the show was presenting at all.

Thursday, July 2, 2015

Communication

Hello to my new classmates!
This week we are asked to present someone who has a communication style that we appreciate. I don't watch a lot of television so my main source of news and entertainment is the internet.
One place I get my information is a Youtube channel called TheLipTV.  They parent documentary reviews and news stories.  One of the shows on that show is called Crime Time.   Allison Hope Wiener is the shows main presenter and her presentation method is one that I appreciate. She often speaks of criminal cases and she never uses judgment in her narrative.  She is an attorney so she also knows what she is speaking about and uses case law, previous cases, and evidence to present her point of view. She has a keen sense of humor and brings on many guests who are leaders in the field.